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Charles A. Buettner, 68, of Charlotte, passed away on Saturday, July 18, 2020 in Charlotte, NC. He was born in Queens, NY to the late Charles Buettner and Frances Wojcieszak Buettner.
Charles was a skilled craftsman, making his living as a contractor in the construction industry. He found joy in music and riding motorcycles. Those who were lucky enough to know Charles knew that he was larger than life. His generosity and kindness were beyond measure. He was thoughtful and considerate and always put others before himself.
Charles is survived by his daughter, Danielle and her husband David Ambrose of Pottstown, PA; grandsons, Mason and Preston Ambrose; his three brothers, Gerard Buettner and his partner John Nelson of Bohemia, NY, Raymond Buettner and Kenneth Buettner, both of Charlotte; and his nephew, Christopher Buettner, wife Corie, and their children, Camden and Cole.
In lieu of flowers, please continue to shine Charles’ light in the world. Perform acts of kindness for others in his memory. A private celebration of life will be held at a later date.
Carolina Cremation of Charlotte and Salisbury is assisting the Buettner family. Online condolences may be made at www.carolinacremation.com.
Sarah Overcash says
I had a pleasure getting to know Charles in the last two years! I felt an immediate connection with Charles. He was like a brother to me!! He was a charming , sensitive , creative , and caring man! I feel blessed to have known him !! Rest in Peace Dear One❤️❤️ You will be missed greatly!
James Halas says
Charles also had the gift of hospitality, and found joy in giving small presents to others. There was never a dull moment around him. We had many colorful adventures together in the 10 years I knew him – work, church, entertainment and road trips. He had good and bad times, and I saw him at his best and at his worst. He was always seeking a happy place, though not always successful. His last years were troubled, so I hope he has found peace with God, and I will be looking for him on the other side.
Dale Biron says
I met Charles through his brother Kenny. Kenny, who over many years became (and is) a brother to me, my wife, Judy and my older brother, Joe. I know Charles had his challenges (don’t we all…) however my experience of him was as a kind and witty human being. I appreciated his sense of humor and the unique (and at times wonderfully odd) ways in which he viewed the world. My wife, Judy and I will never forget the kindness he showed my Sister, Lucy during the last days of her life. It was such a difficult time for all the family, Lucy’s dear friends and, of course Kenny who was shouldering so very much emotionally and literally during those times. Charles brought gifts, kind words, and a very big heart. What else can we possibly ask of one other…
John Costin says
Charles and I were friends, I will miss him
Nancy L Dorrier says
What a bright light, so present and intense and focused like a carpenter, paying attention to every detail in a conversation, in a theory or discussion, in a garden, on the roof. I will miss his spirit and it is still here. From David Whyte:
The death of anyone close to us is always a form of salutation.
The death of anyone close to us is always a form of salutation, a simultaneous good-bye to their physical presence and a deep hello to a more intimate imaginal relationship now beginning to form in their absence…
From:
Crossing the Unknown Sea: Work as A Pilgrimage of Identity
©David Whyte
Maryann Weiss says
I am a cousin of Charles and his brothers. I have not seen Charles in many years as I moved north from Long Island 34 years ago while he moved south. Thank you for inviting me to his online memorial. I was very moved by how many people’s lives he positively affected over the years. It is evident that he was deeply loved by so many. Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. May his soul be at rest.