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Elsie Neal Graham Lowder, 82, of Salisbury, peacefully passed away on Sunday, June 30, 2019 at her home.
She was born December 21, 1936 in Lumberton, NC to the late Alexander Graham and Essie Dunham Graham. She graduated from Barker 10 Mile High School in Lumberton and attended Cabarrus School of Nursing. Elsie retired as Director of Admissions for Pfeiffer University. She was a member of Matton Grove United Methodist Church in Gold Hill, where she was very active. In her spare time she loved cheering on Pfeiffer Basketball and loved gardening.
In addition to her parents, Elsie was preceded in death by her sisters, Sandra Harrel of FL; and Annette Ivey of Lumberton, NC; granddaughter, Lyndi Lowder.
Elsie is survived by her husband of 64 1/2 years, Kenneth Lowder; son, Greg Lowder of Salisbury; grandson, Kinny Lowder and wife, Leigh of Lexington; great-grandchildren, Jade, Jewel, Lance and Kinsley; and great-great-grandson, Liam; sisters, Louise Marr of Laurinburg, NC; Linda Taylor of Laurel Hill, NC; and brother, Alex Graham (Vicki) of Cary, NC.
There will be a Celebration of Life held on July 7th, 2019 from 4-7PM at Matton Grove United Methodist Church, 24732 Matton Grove United Methodist Church, Gold Hill, NC 28071.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Matton Grove United Methodist Church.
Carolina Cremation is assisting the Lowder family. Online condolences may be made at www.carolinacremation.com.
Pam Ford says
Ken, Sending my sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Ruby Barringer says
Ken our love and Prayers are with you. Elsie was one loved woman. She was very special to all the people that were in her life. She will be missed by everyone!
Chuck Ambrose says
We celebrate Elsie with you Ken and count your friendship as one of our most meaningful while we served together in Misenheimer. She was the kindest colleague, friend, and neighbor anyone could ask for…
W Jack Blankenship Sr says
Ken, Sorry for your Loss ???? Sending Prayers and
God Bless you and your
Family at this Dad time ????????????????
W Jack Blankenship Sr
Janice Smith says
Ken. David and I send our prayers to you and your Family. Elsie was special. She will be missed by so many!
Joyce Cody says
Thinking of all of you during these difficult days. Elsie was such a precious friend and I cherish all the good memories we made “sitting in that circle” hearing Ken share his stories and enjoying all of Elsie’s flowers ???? -real and “ fakiums”!!! Well done, thy good and faithful servant!
Marcus Elam says
Elsie was such a wonderful person. She supported students, cared for everyone and always said a kind word to everyone with her soft spoken approach. Elsie loved coming and supporting and cheering for us at basketball games while I was there in the late 80s. Prayers and my thoughts go to her and her family! Elsie will be missed!
Jason and Jill says
All our love to Ken and the family. Elsie was a shinning light full of fun and always smiles.
The stories shared at the holidays were priceless. You will be missed Elsie. We love you!
Gale Misenheimer says
Ken, what can I say. You and Elsie were our dearest friends. We enjoyed all the many trips we went on. She will certainly be missed by so many. Please know we are here whenever you need us. With our deepest sympathy. Lysle and Gale
Coman & Pam Smith says
Ken, our prayers and love to you and your family! May God lift you up during this difficult time. We will never forget her warmth, smiles and kindness! Elsie was so special with a heart full of love and helping others! I loved working with her at Pfeiffer in the 80s and enjoyed our friendship while living in the area. I still have some recipes she shared.
John York says
Loved Elsie worked with her at Pfeiffer for 4 years Ate at her and Kens house She was like a second mom I am blessed she was in my life
Carol M. Swift says
Ken, there are no words that can be said and like I said yesterday when we spoke, my head knows and realizes this is for the best, it’s my heart that is not dealing with losing Elsie.
Larry Goodman says
I’m so sorry for your lost. You and your family will remain in my prayers.
Bonnie Chellman says
Ken, Elsie was a beautiful person. I am very sorry for your loss.
Jason Moxley says
Ken, Thinking of you and your family. We know she is in a better place now. Elsie was as kind of a woman as there ever will be here on earth. Hang in there buddy. Thoughts and prayers ????????
Nona Wagh and family says
Dear Ken and family, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Elsie was an amazing human being. Loved her! Have so many fantastic memories with Elsie and you during my years at Pfeiffer, as well as after graduating, we stayed in touch! She was so very kind to me and my family. Will always cherish our fun times together. Sending a big hug to all of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. R.I.P Elsie????❤️
Stan Swift says
A special lady a loss that will be felt to all that knew her,so sorry Ken and Greg and your family
Colletta Bryce says
Dearest Ken and Family, Elsie meant the world to me and so many. She had a deep commitment to Pfeiffer and to so many students and colleagues. God has truly gained an angel. Great memories. Prayers for peace and comfort.
Lori Murray says
My heart goes out to you all.
I know Elsie is truly walking streets of gold with my mom now.
Elsie was and will always be “my other mother “ as I lovingly called her. I have so many fond memories of her. She was a true godly lady who loved everyone.
Sabrina Sells (Helsabeck)) says
Ken, I am sending you and your entire family my love and prayers for peace and comfort as you celebrate the beautiful life of your dear Elsie. I hope your memories of her kindness and goodness will sustain you as your mourn her loss. She was an amazing woman.