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James “Jimmy” Lee Mapp, 76, of Salisbury, passed away Saturday, August 4, 2018 at the NC State Veterans Home in Salisbury, NC.
He was born June 28, 1942 in Elon, NC to the late John Mapp and Ollie Lea Mapp Harris.
Jimmy worked as a truck driver for Mayflower Moving Company, Bowman Transportation, CalArk Trucking and Estes Special Services for more than fifty years, collectively. Having served in the US Air Force, he was also an avid horseman and enjoyed spending time outdoors, being one with nature.
In addition to his parents, Jimmy was preceded in death by daughter, Tanya Mapp and his sister, Shirley Williams.
Jimmy is survived by brother, Ben Yows (Jeanine); brother, John Mapp (Novella); sister, Brenda Smith (Arthur); brother, Dwight Mapp; brother, Charles Shaw; brother, Bernard Harris (Pamela); daughter, Angela Mapp; daughter, Dawn Mapp; daughter, Dacia Randolph (Joe); son, Sean Mapp; 4 grandchildren, 2 great-grandchildren and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins.
There will be a memorial service held at Elon First Baptist Church in Elon, NC at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, August 11, 2018.
In lieu of flowers, memorials and donations may be made to the NC State Veterans Home in Salisbury, NC.
Carolina Cremation is assisting the Mapp family. Online condolences may be made at www.carolinacremation.com.
Dacia Randolph says
My Daddy
From the time I was a very little girl,
It was you whom was the center of my world.
When I first began to speak,
It was your name that I would only seek.
No matter where you would go, I was your shadow;
I’d never be far behind, always in tow.
You would love to show off your little girl,
Because I loved to dance around and twirl.
People would ask, “baby, how old are you, what’s your name”?
“Uh, Uh, my daaaaaddy” is the response that would always remain the same.
When you drove long distance, I knew what was at stake,
That’s why I’d always look forward to you coming home on your eight-hour break.
I’d be so excited when I’d see that 18-wheeler coming down the way;
“Dacia, Dacia look – it’s your daddy!” the neighborhood kids would say.
You’d turn that truck around in the circle with precision and ease;
I’d jump up and down and run to your truck, beaming with glee.
I’d always look up to you for you were the source of my strength, my hero.
There was no one that could compare; the competition, absolute zero.
It never would matter when the boys would break my heart,
Because your love for me was there from the very start.
I knew I could accomplish anything, blessings abound;
For you were my daddy and all I wanted to do was make you proud.
As an adult, I’d often speak of Jimmy Mapp and his life’s lessons,
Coming from a hard knock life, for you, is what was destined.
You’d give anyone your last dollar and the shirt off of your back,
Because you wanted no one to struggle as you did, common humanity to remain intact.
People would wonder if I had a relationship with my mother,
I’d reply, “of’ course”, and would be somewhat bothered.
They’d say, “my apologies, for I did not know,
Because girl, all you do is talk about your daddy everywhere you go”!
At our wedding, the O’Jays sang, “You Used To Be My Girl”, as we danced the night away;
You tickled me when you did your two-step, so no, I’ll never forget that day.
Many people did not have the pleasure of knowing the many sides of you,
So multifaceted, I took pride in knowing no one understood you like I do.
“Mean and surly” is the scolding name I gave,
The times I’d chastise you when you’d act up and misbehave.
The nursing care staff told me how you were selfless and so strong,
How you’d even call them when they were ill and something was wrong.
They shared how excited you were about my upcoming visit,
Insisting your wheelchair be cleaned, and they’d dare not to resist.
This week, you wanted to be presentable from head, to chair, to toe;
Being unpresentable when we were to go out, that was a definite no, no.
Yes, I know this is part of God’s plan,
However, I simply cannot understand.
In Baltimore helping Sean is where you’d be,
And out in Reno watching the wild horses with me.
Your inability to wait for me to arrive is the cruelest thing yet,
But daddy, I understand, your service in this life has now been met.
When we first learned of your terminal illness, I immediately called you,
To see how you were holding up, to make sure you weren’t blue.
You were at peace and said you’d keep living until you were not,
And that you weren’t giving up because hope had not been lost.
How you were feeling was not your concern that day,
Instead you asked me how I was doing and if I’d be okay.
But it’s not about me and nothing else seems to matter,
For losing you has been the most challenging thing I’ve yet to encounter.
My heart is extremely heavy and grievances unbearable,
Every time I see a truck, I start to cry and become ever so miserable.
None of our time on Earth is eternal, it must come to an end,
I know I’ll see you again on the other side, but until then…
It has been my pleasure being your daughter,
Because you are irreplaceable, my one and only earthly father.
The love I have of you is the greatest in this world,
For you will always be my daddy, and I, daddy’s little girl.
Rhonda Minter says
Praying for you and your family Dacia in the loss of your father. I know how much you loved him and how he was your pride and joy. Sending you a big hug as I know the feeling of losing a parent. May he rest in peace…Love and miss you LS!
Dr. Linda Addo says
Dacia, I was sorry to hear about the passing of your Father. Over the years that you and my daughter and you have been friends I know how much you loved him and what a great positive influence he had on you and the intelligent, caring and wonderful person you are.. You will have many happy memories that will be with you always. You will see him again, for all who believe in Jesus know that He is the source of eternal life and the resurrection of all those who believe. Your Father’s love and spirit will always be with you. You know that we have always considered you a member of our extended family. Your Father is resting in peace. Bless you, Dr. Linda Addo
Sean Mapp says
There are many things I can say about my father and I’ll tell you this,
Me giving these words right now wouldn’t have been his last wish.
But, I’m the baby, so as usual, I’ll just make him a lil pissed.
Hope ya’ll laughed or found that funny,
Because my father’s love was as pure as honey.
Nasty at times, he could be,
But sometimes that’s needed in the Mapp family.
I shed a tear as I write these words,
Because this is a man who would help a stranger on the curb.
He gave me every ambition to be the man that I am,
To raise my family, and that is 100 Grand.
There’s not enough ink in my pen or white on the paper to express my joy and pain,
The joy of you bringing me into your home, nurturing and sheltering me from the rain.
Doing all of this as if I was your very own,
Man daddy, I can’t believe that you’re gone.
Pain for the love I can’t see or touch anymore,
But back to joy because ‘this pain’, you’ve taught me to endure.
And yes, daddy, I am sure,
I’ll keep your name and Mapp legacy pure.
And so, I’ll end like this daddy,
I’m sorry if I got you a little pissed.
I just had to show you that you will be truly missed.
I love you daddy!
~ Sean Mapp
Angie Rogers says
Dacia, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how much you love your father! May the Lord be with you and give you peace beyond all understanding.
Kim Bush Mack says
Dacia, I just wanted to give my condolences in the loss of your father. I pray you will have comfort over time in the loving memories you have of your dad and the love you shared. Please know I will be praying for you and your family for God’s comfort, strength and power to keep you in the days, weeks, months and years to come. Blessings to you .
Danielle Panettiere says
Dacia-
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I am praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy
Kendra Canady says
Dacia, you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers during this time. Your father is at peace and having you as a daughter brought him such happiness. The poem you wrote in his memory is so beautiful. Continue to let your light shine as a reflection of God and the legacy of your precious father. 1 Peter 5:7 Cast all your cares upon Him, because He cares for you. God is with you always and He loves you so much Dacia!
Thomas Fowler says
Praying for the family
Nicole Burba says
Prayers for you Dacia and your family. May he rest in peace.
Tara Hess says
Dacia, I am so sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. I know how important your dad was to you and words can’t express my heartbreak for you. You’re memory was so beautiful, wow! I hope the love you shared with him will comfort you as you move forward in your journey.
Karen Freeman-Moore says
Dacia –
My heart and love goes out to you and your family. Truly, your heartache is felt
I’m sending you comforting hugs and always much love, my sister. God bless you, my friend.
Karen Freeman-Moore says
Dacia –
My heart and love goes out to you and your family. Truly, your heartache is felt
I’m sending you comforting hugs and always much love, my sister. God bless you.
Karen Freeman-Moore says
Dacia –
My heart and love goes out to you and your family. Truly, your heartache is felt.
Sending you comforting hugs and always much love, my sister. May God bless you and provide you with peace.
Jackie Mooneyhan says
Dacia my thoughts are with you and your family as you celebrate your Dad’s life and embrace the memories.