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Terrill “Terry” Wesley Lowe, 70, passed away on February 2, 2026, in Charlotte, North Carolina.
Born on March 1, 1955, in Hendersonville, North Carolina, Terry lived a life filled with music, service, and deep devotion to his family and community.
Terry graduated from Hendersonville East High School before continuing his education at Anderson College and the Baptist College at Charleston (now Charleston Southern University), where he earned a master’s degree in music arts. His passion for music became the foundation of a remarkable career that spanned over five decades.
As a gifted pianist and exceptional leader of choirs and praise teams, Terry served as director of music at several churches throughout South Carolina. His ministry included roles at Cokesbury United Methodist Church, St. Andrews United Methodist Church, Travelers Rest Baptist Church, and Grove Station Baptist Church. He was also instrumental in helping establish Metro North Church in Goose Creek, South Carolina – a testament to his commitment to faith and community.
Beyond the church walls, Terry shared his talents with the broader community through his work with the South Carolina Department of Employment and later as a road representative for Bernhardt House of Violins, supporting local schools and young musicians.
Terry proudly served his country as a reservist in the United States Navy for four years. As a Seabee, he embodied the values of dedication and resilience that would define every aspect of his life.
Those who knew Terry will remember him for his vibrant personality – he never met a stranger and had an infectious smile that could light up any room. His sense of humor was legendary among friends and family alike. Whether he was casting a line while fishing, cruising on his pontoon boat, tending to his yard and garden with care, or exploring new places alongside his beloved wife Jahala, Terry embraced life with joy and enthusiasm. Music remained a constant companion; he found peace strumming his
guitar or playing piano melodies that brought comfort to many.
Above all else, Terry cherished time spent with family. He is survived by his devoted wife Jahala Lowe; sons Justin Lowe (Shelbee), and Deland Cox; sister Patricia Donaldson (Bill); granddaughter McKinlee Lowe; and bother-in-law Gene Maddox; as well as many loving aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and extended family members.
He was preceded in death by his father Ray Lowe; mother Ann Lowe Stroup; and sister
Linda Maddox.
Terry’s legacy lives on through the countless lives he touched – with every note played on the piano or song lifted in worship echoing the joy he brought into this world. He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. May his memory bring comfort to those who knew him.
A Celebration of Life will be held on February 22, 2026, at 02:00 PM at Shaws Creek Baptist Church, 91 Shaws Creek Church Road, Hendersonville, NC, 28791.
In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations to be made in Terry’s memory to the music department at Shaws Creek Baptist Church.
As we bid farewell to Terry, we find solace in the cherished moments we shared and the legacy of love he leaves behind. May his memory be a blessing and may he rest in eternal peace.
Carolina Cremation is assisting the Lowe family. Online condolences may be made at www.carolinacremation.com.
Carol & Bob Pepper says
Though Heaven will be brighter with your presence there, we will dearly miss you here my beloved Cousin. May the Lord hold you, Jahala, closely in His arms as you walk through the days ahead. We love you so much!
Rebecca McCall says
I remember Terry as the Senior Class President for EHHS Class of 1973. Always a great guy with loads of talent.
Joy Kent says
I loved Terry so much. He was definitely a gift to us and listening to him sing warmed my heart. He will be sorely missed!
Linzi Mitchell says
What a beautiful tribute to a very special human being! Jahala, you and Terry truly touched our lives and became family over the last few years. Praying for peace and comfort for all who knew and loved Terry.
Teresa B Cooper says
Love is eternal, and the love that you Jahala shared with Terry will endure through all eternity. I pray that God our loving Heavenly Father will comfort you and keep you til you and Terry are united again.
7 Tower Friends says
We are deeply grateful for the opportunity to care for Terry. You both became like family to our team, and throughout our time together, Terry touched us with his humor, his kindness, and his warm smile. We love you both, and we extend our heartfelt condolences to your entire family.
Sherri Kemph says
Terry was so very uplifting in every aspect of his life. He always made everyone around him feel joy and belonging with every smile or word he spoke. I will miss my precious cousin so much. I will be praying for you, Jahala and Trish and the entire family. My love to you all.
The Voice says
You were always a light. You will be dearly missed.
To quote a wise man
“Heavenly Father watchin’ us fall
We take from each other and give nothing at all
Well, it’s a doggone shame
But never too late for change
So, if your luck runs low
Just reach out and call His name, His name
Yah-mo be there….
Whenever you call
Never be lonely, lost in the night
Just run from the darkness, lookin’ for the light
‘Cause it’s a long, hard road
That leads to a brighter day, hey
Don’t let your heart grow cold
Just reach out and call His name, His name
Yah-mo be there…
You can count on it, brother
‘Cause we’re all just finding our way
Travelin’ through time
People got to keep pushin’ on
No matter how many dreams slip away
Yah will be there
Well, it’s a doggone shame
But never too late for change
So, when your luck runs low
Just reach out and call His name
Just call His name
Yah-mo be there…”
Will says
Terry was a good friend of mine. I remember when he and my mom used to work together at a music shop, I also enjoyed going to the storage and back to the shops with him, he and his wife also took me to one of the towers once and I am very grateful for all of my time I could get with them, I’m very sorry for the loss.